Sometimes it takes Spirits time to adjust to the fact they are no longer contained within a physical being.
Hence why it's important to respect the Souls that are new to the Spirit realm, I learnt this one had a loved one asking them to come to see me, but he was distressed, in shock.
Please give your loved ones time to adjust and accept what's happened befor calling upon them, the same applies to celebrities, they have just as much right to adjusting as we do. It's NOT cool, its sacrilegious!
~ Karen